In Pursuit of Happiness – A Popular Folk Tale
An endless circle of 99
Have you heard of the story of the endless circle of 99? It is a Catch 99 situation indeed – pun intended!
Once there lived a king who despite all his riches and glory, was unhappy and discontented with life. One day he met with a common farmer, who was singing while working on his small patch of land. The king was intrigued and wondered how a relatively poor common man could be so happy.
He asked for the farmer to appear in his court. The king came straight to the point and asked him, “How come you are so happy?”
The farmer smilingly replied, “I may not be very rich, but me and my family have food to eat, clothes to wear and a roof over our heads. We don’t need more and are happy with our lives.”
The king did not believe the farmer and questioned his ministers. One of them said that perhaps the farmer has not gone around in the circles of 99 as yet. The king was curious and wanted to know what that meant.
The minister said that in order to understand it they would need to leave a bag with 99 gold coins at the farmer’s doorstep. The king granted permission for this.
The next day as the farmer returned home from the fields, he spotted this bag of coins. He was overjoyed to see gold coins in it and started to count them. He counted and he recounted, but found that there were only 99 coins in the bags. He was puzzled and very upset, and wanted to find out what happened to the 100th gold coin, because why would anyone leave 99 coins in a bag and not a whole 100? He looked everywhere, but could not find it.
Sure enough, his life changed from that very day. He got very stressed about it and decided that he will work harder to be able to earn that 100th gold coin. He turned grumpy with his family, was constantly tired, overworked, developed ill health and lost all happiness.
When the king saw him working in the farm looking all stressed and unhappy, he asked the minister what had happened.
The minister replied, “This farmer is now trapped in the endless circles of 99, and he will never be happy. Even though he had everything to be happy earlier and got 99 gold coins which is way more than what he could have ever imagined, he is now in the pursuit of the 100th coin. That is what the circle of 99 does to a person.”
Even though people have enough to be happy, they are not content, because they are always striving for that one extra thing that they believe will make them happy.
Isn’t this something we all need to be cognizant of in terms of what we already have and what we desire?
Relevance of the above story to the Real Estate Market
So what is the real message and how does it relate to real estate? Why should you care?
Wealth building is important not just for personal enjoyment but also to leave a legacy behind.
Scotiabank has a slogan – “You are richer than you think.” In literal sense, this is true for many Canadians in today’s environment. Our real estate market has grown almost four times over the past two decades. People have accumulated a lot of real estate wealth and many can see themselves retiring rich.
Types of Real Estate Consumers
There are many types of real estate consumers that we meet everyday.
The first type of consumers are those folks who have bought a house once. They are satisfied with what they have and continue to live in it till they retire. Often many of these people will buy a starter home as a young family, say a 2 BR apartment and later move into a townhouse or a semi or a detached home, where they either retire or sell in their later stages of life to move into smaller properties or into rental apartments and use the proceeds of sale over their retirement years.
The second type of real estate consumers can be one of the above, but they will also invest in a second or a third property. Their investment properties grow with time. These people either hold their investment properties over a long period or sell them in a few years and make profit and/ or buy other similar properties over their life span. In their retirement years, they often sell these investment properties and invest their money into other financial assets like safe dividend paying stocks, bonds, mutual funds etc. In old age they don’t want to involve themselves in the active management of real estate assets but they prefer a passive style of investing that can easily be bought or sold with the click of a mouse. Many such investors get so good at mastering the art of real estate investing that they continue buying multiple properties, sometimes they even diversify into land development, home building etc.
In both the above cases, these people will often help their kids by either taking equity from their properties and giving money to the kids so that they can buy their first home, or sometimes by gifting a property itself. These types of real estate consumers are good examples of building wealth from real estate and retiring rich.
The third type of real estate consumer is someone who has no clear goals. They can be differentiated into two types: those who don’t want to buy or save even if they have all the qualifications and those who are trapped in the endless circles of 99.
Those who don’t buy and continue to rent are those people who always think that the sky is going to fall. They end up waiting for a crash, only to see themselves priced-out of the real estate market and end up as lifetime renters. And the other real estate consumers who are trapped in the endless circles of 99, can be buyers who constantly keep buying properties, they are not content, because they are always striving for that one extra property that they may believe will make them happy. Sometimes these people can end up over stretching themselves just because they want a bigger house than their circle of friends or more properties than what their peers own.
Such people need financial wisdom. They need to sit with their qualified financial advisor, who can explain to them the numbers, show them how to use money judiciously.
My two cents
As a human, we need to understand our role and goals in life as they relate to our personal growth in all aspects: health, well-being, spirituality, financial security and last but not the least, philanthropy.
We all get caught up in the material world and start chasing our various desires. Goals are very important and achieving them makes all the sense as long as expectations and goals are realistic. One should be content with what we have and what we can leave for our next generation or give to a cause for the welfare of the society.
Truly speaking, in my opinion, it might not make a lot of sense to leave a lot of wealth for one’s next generation, reason being; if your kids are smart, they won’t need your money.
Most second-generation kids in North America are doing better than their parents and are well settled. They need maximum help in their early years with their university education fees or buying their first property. And it does make sense to help kickstart their life, if the parents are in a position to do that. Now if one’s kids turn out to be irresponsible, then how much ever wealth you leave behind will vanish because these children will blow up the money which their parents leave behind. But again, this is just my opinion, and parents must do what they deem good for their children, according to their means.
Leaving a legacy in this life and after you are gone
Wealth ends up in three ways: Personal Enjoyment, Charity and Waste. It should be our goal to earn a good amount of money honestly and to sensibly enjoy our wealth. Billions of dollars are sitting unclaimed in countries worldwide from people that have not understood how to use money, they are not financially literate and do not enjoy the money while they are alive. This situation is not limited to a few, there are so many billionaires in this world who also lack financial wisdom. If they really want to use their wealth judiciously, then they can also use their wealth to make this world a better place to live.
In the end, I would like to say that at some point we all need to take pause from our busy lives and re-evaluate where we are and where we need to be. Do we have enough, do we need more? Are we enjoying our wealth and life or are we just rushing all the time? We need to find a balance. And we need to make smart decisions around wealth building through real estate or other investments.
And if we are at a stage where we can, we must also contribute to a better future by helping our mother earth, adapting to climate friendly lifestyles, cleaning our rivers, helping out with food shortages, eradicating poverty, promoting education, healthcare and so on.
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